I’ve gotten this question before and the answer is that I love them! Yes, I know that we’re not talking about sweets, but the idea that a wealthy older man financially supports a younger woman for fun and more? Yeah, it grates on us as a mature, developed society, but also, to each their own.

Here’s the thing (and someone asked about wealth earlier) if you have money and want to use that to find women who will date you just for that money, then go for it. If you are honest and they are honest, then I hope you have a blast. Don’t be a dick about it, but yeah, if you want to entertain women and help them pay their bills and buy them nice things so that they will entertain you, go for it.

I can even help you write a profile that doesn’t make you sound like a pimp.

Now if you do that and then you complain that you can’t find a nice wife, well, then you will get a talking-to from me.

I have worked in marketing my whole life and have I loved every product or service or truly believe it was THE BEST EVER? No. I did my job. I highlighted the best parts of the product. I did not lie. I did not cheat.

That’s where I draw the line with dating. Don’t lie. Don’t cheat.

You just want to have casual relationships with women who show up when you want and leave before you wake up. Fine by me.

If you want to improve your online dating experiences, then I’m your gal.

I provide advice to anyone who wants to learn how our communications styles and skills are impacting our romantic lives in ways that we rarely notice. Your pictures, your social media posts, your texts tell a story – whether you are dating online or simply socializing with friends in the digital world.  And as callous and brash and cold as that sounds, we have to understand that we live in a visual, technology-driven world. Even though our relationship happens in real life, the first connections, introductions, and conversations will most likely start on a digital platform and that experience will form the basis of that relationship.

I help clients by using my digital marketing expertise to help guide their online presence – from photos to words, to the overall presentation to actual in-person events.

Coach JJ