Are dating strategies the same for men and women?

I was asked this question recently in an online AMA (ask me anything) session and I think it is important to cover again. Are your services available for both men and women, and how does your strategy differ between the two sexes? Yes, and it doesn't. Listen, men and women are vastly different creatures, but … Continue reading Are dating strategies the same for men and women?

How to project the right image when you are shy and uncomfortable opening up

The question came in like this: How can you help someone project the right image when they are shy and uncomfortable opening up to strangers? For me, shy people are way easier to coach! They listen more intently and they often take the advice to heart. They have struggled with personal communications and they don't … Continue reading How to project the right image when you are shy and uncomfortable opening up

Marketing tips to better promote yourself as a good dating prospect

I write about this very topic often because my entire practice is based on the idea that marketing tactics can improve dating. Here are some basics that I tell everyone, but we certainly want to refine the tools for your individual needs. Take better photos. Absolutely no bathroom selfies after the age of 17. Seriously, … Continue reading Marketing tips to better promote yourself as a good dating prospect

When dating, is there such a thing as being too honest?

Should one only project their good qualities and then show their true selves when the relationship deepens or is that considered a form of deceit? Oh yes, good questions! Yes. Yes. And, wow, that seems really wrong to me... Yes, there is such a thing as being too honest. (more below) Yes, one should PROJECT their good … Continue reading When dating, is there such a thing as being too honest?

What’s the best way to promote yourself as a great dating prospect?

Well... I answer this question with a question: A great dating prospect for whom? That's the trick. What you need to say and do depends on who you want to attract. That's why you need a coach. But I can give you some solid suggestions. To Do Find a way to nicely or humorously describe … Continue reading What’s the best way to promote yourself as a great dating prospect?

Dating Advice: Is it important that you love everything about yourself?

No. First of all, no one loves everything about themselves all of the time.  That would be weird. And probably a lie. And if you do, nothing will knock you down faster than finding things that you did not see in yourself through the eyes of your new partner. There is a business term called RERO. It … Continue reading Dating Advice: Is it important that you love everything about yourself?

Dating Advice: What are the common unrealistic expectations that people have when dating?

Ha. I love this real question that I received online recently. I will go to a business example. Client: We have no budget, no plan, a mediocre product, and little interest in doing anything differently, but please get us on Oprah or the cover of Forbes. Nope. Not going to happen. Most of the time … Continue reading Dating Advice: What are the common unrealistic expectations that people have when dating?

Dating Advice: In order to successfully date, build a personal brand

With social media and the internet, the average person (first world adults) are subjected to about 5,000 marketing messages per day. PER DAY! Because t here's what I know after 25 years in marketing: Nothing just sells itself. There is no, "if you build it, they will come." Everything is marketing. This website is marketed … Continue reading Dating Advice: In order to successfully date, build a personal brand