What would you tell a woman who thinks loving a man is giving him power over her?

This question makes me sad. I would tell a woman or man who is afraid of losing all their power to a lover to see an experienced therapist. Here’s the thing, you do give up some power in a relationship. For example, I used to have the power to have sex with anyone I wanted … Continue reading What would you tell a woman who thinks loving a man is giving him power over her?

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The most Common Mistakes I see People make while Dating

I am often asked this question and while I know I have discussed this in a prior post, I think it's important to review the basics. But don't worry, I will make it short and sweet. In relation to online dating profiles there are three common mistakes: Bad photos (or no photos) Random or rambling … Continue reading The most Common Mistakes I see People make while Dating

What is the role of self-criticism in the development of one’s image?

It is really hard to analyze ourselves in any capacity. It's like a doctor operating on themselves or a therapist giving themselves advice. Doctors see other doctors and therapists see other therapists because they need someone skilled and objecting. I routinely ask for feedback professionally and am sometimes surprised by the information I receive. Once, … Continue reading What is the role of self-criticism in the development of one’s image?

How to tell if the person you’re dating is worth the time and effort?

Great question. I have two answers: Don't put in very much time and effort. Watch their actions and your feelings. It's like being a car salesperson and believing every person who test-drives a car is going to buy one. Some people just like test driving cars. They ask lots of questions. Take pictures. Talk about … Continue reading How to tell if the person you’re dating is worth the time and effort?

What are your thoughts on the concept of sugar daddies and sugar babies?

Oh, love them! I assume you're not talking about sweets, but the idea that a wealthy older man financially supports a younger woman for fun and more? Here's the thing (and someone asked about wealth earlier) if you have money and want to use that to find women who will date you just for that … Continue reading What are your thoughts on the concept of sugar daddies and sugar babies?

Top 6 traits that men look for in a Woman

Kindness. Ease. Quiet Strength. Openness. Vulnerability. Fun. Seriously, so men are so tired of getting the shit kicked out of them. Side rant...we as women have taken our power too far in many cases. I am surrounded by men that are bullied and henpecked and unappreciated. It is ugly and I expect more from women. … Continue reading Top 6 traits that men look for in a Woman