Short answer: I don’t. Meaning, I am not setting goals for you. I am not going to tell you how many people to date, or when to have sex or not to have sex, or if you should date 10 people at once. You have to tell me about your goals. Then, I will tell … Continue reading How does a Dating Coach Determine Ideal Goals to set for a Client?
I have two answers: Don't put in very much time and effort. Watch their actions and your feelings. It's like being a car salesperson and believing every person who test-drives a car is going to buy one. Some people just like test driving cars. They ask lots of questions. Take pictures. Talk about financing. Then … Continue reading How to Identify if the Person you are Dating is Worth the Effort?
I get hassled because I often tell people that women should not take advice from their girlfriends. I need to qualify that statement: MOST women should not take advice from MOST of their girlfriends. My friends should take advice from me, for sure! I'll tell you a story about my best friend, Sunshine. She is … Continue reading Do not take Dating Advice from your Friends
It is really hard to analyze ourselves in any capacity. It's like a doctor operating on themselves or a therapist giving themselves advice. Doctors see other doctors and therapists see other therapists because they need someone skilled and objecting. I routinely ask for feedback professionally and am sometimes surprised by the information I receive. Once, … Continue reading What is the role of self-criticism in the development of one’s image?
I get questions about dating mistakes all the time and have written about it frequently, so I will be short and sweet. In relation to online dating profiles there are 3 common mistakes: Bad photos (or no photos) Random or rambling bios Negativity Now, WHILE actually dating, there are a million mistakes, but these three … Continue reading Common Online Dating Mistakes
With social media and the internet, the average person (first world adults) are subjected to about 5,000 marketing messages per day. PER DAY! That's a lot of images, hype, false idols, and noise. But here's what I know after 25 years in marketing: Nothing just sells itself. There is no "if you build it, they … Continue reading In Order to Successfully date Online, you need to Build a Personal Brand
This question came up one during an online Q & A and it still makes me sad. Honestly, I would tell a woman or man who is afraid of losing all their power to a lover to see an experienced therapist. But for daters, I say giving up some power (often called compromising or making … Continue reading What would you tell a woman who thinks loving a man is giving him power over her?