Coaching FAQ

Below is a list of common image consulting questions and you can visit my Dating Q & A with answers to online dating questions from real-life daters.

Can an image expert help me date better?

Yes, even your soul mate needs some PR to get things started and a great coach can help you believe in yourself and thrive in the dating world!

What will I get from a dating coach?

With 25 years of marketing, merchandising, and publicity experience, I will help you develop your individual communications style and walk with you on your journey to find love, taking the time to educate you on the relevant tools (online dating can be so confusing!) and social options while listening to your specific challenges, experiences, and needs.

What if I just want to “hook-up” or have sex?

Sorry, we won’t be able to work together, but there are websites for that. This is for real people who want to invest in real relationships.

What if I am married, but I want to date other people?

Nope. This is for real people who want to invest in real relationships.

How much is all this art and science going to cost me?

Can you really put a price on love? No. But we can put a price on my time, the vault of knowledge I hold after practicing in the media and communications field for 25 years, and the fact that I know the tools inside and out. That price ranges from $189 per hour to $1899 for the entire love story makeover. Someday I will sell packages to the masses, but right now, I just want to work with people I can help.

Can you find the person I want to date?

Nope. I can not hand deliver prince charming or your perfect mate. You will have to have an online profile and actually work through the process, but we can do it together and I will help you every step of the way.

Do you guarantee dates?

No. But I guarantee my time, effort, and insights and I guarantee that I will be available for you as a partner and supporter. And I guarantee I can help you make improvements to your personal online brand.

Can I date you?

Nope. I’m taken, but thanks for asking! Now let’s find someone awesome for you to date! Sign up for a 15-minute phone consultation using the Get Coached form.

Do you work with your clients in person or online?

I do most of my work via phone and internet. I am in a small town that you may have heard of but I am not close to any major cities, so unless you are a VIP client, it’s phone and email for us. My goal is to have 10 in-person clients per year where I travel to their city to set them up as perfect daters. Follow me on Facebook and I will let you know when I get there! Until then, let’s chat here or via message.

What do your FREE 15-minute phone consultations include?

For everyone, I do a free, 15-minute Get Coached conversation. We do it on the phone, at the client’s convenience to determine if we can work together. You will know in two minutes if you want to spend your money to get my advice.

Ugh, I know, we have to actually talk in real life. Weird, right? But it tells me so much and it helps me to find my best clients. Now, I don’t like to focus on the bad, but for safety reasons, I need to have a phone number where I can reach you and it needs to be searchable on my phone. For consulting reasons, if you cannot commit to 15 minutes during waking hours, then you’re either undatable or you have so many options that you do not need me. I need to know if there is a language barrier. It tells me about your education and your geographic origins and all types of things.

But the most important part is that we will know if we like and respect each other.

People say they want a coach, but what they really want to do is pay me to listen to them bitch about their ex or what is wrong with the entire population of the opposite sex.

Your future partner is going to need to deal with you in real life and so must I. But until we meet, you can bombard me with questions and I have a growing body of advice online.

You talk and I listen. Or more accurately, I ask questions and let you talk. You will tell me 5 things that I need to know about you, whether or not you are datable, and whether or not we can work together. I can’t tell you those five things here, because then everyone will give the answers I want to hear, but I will tell you at the end of our conversation. But some basics we will cover is gender, age, location, family, marriages, dating life, career, physical description, etc. But one last hint, it is not what you tell me that makes you datable, it is how you tell me. If a client says: short, fat, bald, poor in the right way, I can make something happen. It is marketing, after all.



Blame it on my MBA, but I can prove that the same PR & publicity approaches that I have used for over 20 years in consulting with over 100 clients can be overlaid or slightly modified to improve your dating life. I have placed thousands of media stories based on my storytelling abilities. I bet I can help you get a date. Intrigued? Click here to read more about using my proven branding strategies to improve your online dating experiences.