This question makes me sad. I would tell a woman or man who is afraid of losing all their power to a lover to see an experienced therapist. Here’s the thing, you do give up some power in a relationship. For example, I used to have the power to have sex with anyone I wanted … Continue reading What would you tell a woman who thinks loving a man is giving him power over her?
I am often asked this question and while I know I have discussed this in a prior post, I think it's important to review the basics. But don't worry, I will make it short and sweet. In relation to online dating profiles there are three common mistakes: Bad photos (or no photos) Random or rambling … Continue reading The most Common Mistakes I see People make while Dating
Women should not take dating advice from their girlfriends!
It is really hard to analyze ourselves in any capacity. It's like a doctor operating on themselves or a therapist giving themselves advice. Doctors see other doctors and therapists see other therapists because they need someone skilled and objecting. I routinely ask for feedback professionally and am sometimes surprised by the information I receive. Once, … Continue reading What is the role of self-criticism in the development of one’s image?
Great question. I have two answers: Don't put in very much time and effort. Watch their actions and your feelings. It's like being a car salesperson and believing every person who test-drives a car is going to buy one. Some people just like test driving cars. They ask lots of questions. Take pictures. Talk about … Continue reading How to tell if the person you’re dating is worth the time and effort?
Kindness. Ease. Quiet Strength. Openness. Vulnerability. Fun. Seriously, so men are so tired of getting the shit kicked out of them. Side rant...we as women have taken our power too far in many cases. I am surrounded by men that are bullied and henpecked and unappreciated. It is ugly and I expect more from women. … Continue reading Top 6 traits that men look for in a Woman
Ok, that's two questions: First, since we have like science and stuff we don't all believe in the idea of ONE soulmate. I think that type of rigid romantic thinking keeps us from finding real love. I have literally seen every Disney princess fairytale at least 10 times. I love a good heart-wrenching love story. But … Continue reading Why do you think people feel it is harder to date, and find their soulmate now?